Following up on my last blog “Pruning season for Canada,” I ask today, is it good advice to “ treat others the way we’d like to be treated? Easy to respond yes in general, but difficult when being under attack and indeed, today, Canada is under attack. Let me start by saying that I am not the kind to roll over when attacked. Defending is not a choice; it is vital. Survival is not optional. What is optional is how to respond and counter attack. My experience tells me that knowing more about my attacker’s reasons, behavior, objectives and demands should help me better prepare my response for win-win negotiations.